Bring Your Child up in the Ways of The Lord
"Bring your child up in the ways of the Lord and they shall not depart."
Today I was blessed as I started to explore some faces on facebook. No it was not just any faces but rather faces from some of the youth from years ago that attended our local church.
In particular, I took a look at some of the youth that grew up at the same time as my daughter and who were on fire for God and some of those who were considered to be rebels.
To my surprise, the local group of friends, are all still in touch with each other through facebook, and although they have been scattered around South Africa and even the world, all are still on fire for the Lord, even those who were rebels!
Godly parents bring up Godly children who will succeed in all that they do. It may often be the case that the child will stray from the Word for a short time and may get caught up in some worldly activities, but they soon return to the place that they know and find comfort in - The Love of Jesus.
I remember a study that took place years ago where they studied the genealogy of two families, one a Godly man and another that was an atheist. The Godly man was followed by a host of successful children and grandchildren who all had good standing in the world - Doctors, professors and pastors - while the Atheist was followed by a row of Drunkards, bankruptcies, crime etc.
Parents, the best gift that you can ever pass on to your children is the gift of Jesus. Show them the love of Jesus in your life and bring them up in the ways of the Lord, and they will in return bring to you such joy and happiness, especially on a day in years time, when you meet them at the pearly gates and they are accepted to live in heaven with you.
Remember that the only thing that you can ever take to heaven with you is those people around you. Giving your children the opportunity to experience eternity in Heaven with you one day is the best thing that you can ever do for them.
Children obey
The family units of today have become a mess, with children disobedient to their parents and having no respect for their parents. There are many reasons for this, but the biggest single reason that exists is that the teachings of the bible, Jesus, and the fear of God no longer exist in the hearts of the people.
Bring your child up in the ways of the Lord and they shall not depart from them. Many who are crying out about the disobedience and rebellion of their own children, have simply not brought their children up in the ways of the Lord. If the child was brought up incorrectly, then the blame is not on the child, but rather on the parents. Parents who did not want to bring up their children biblically, can not now decide to blame their children for being disrespectful towards them.
Ephesians 6:1 "Children obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right." This scripture does have a double meaning which is introduced with the phrase "Parents in the Lord." The first meaning is that you should obey your parents as they themselves obey God. The second meaning is that you should also obey your spiritual parents and that is those who have become your spiritual mother and father in God.
Verse 2 to 3. "Honour your father and mother," which is the first commandment with promise. "That it may be well with you and you may live long on the earth." This scripture is a reference to the main scripture dealing with this topic which is found in Deuteronomy 5:16.
Deuteronomy 27:16 treats the subject more severely. "Cursed is the one who treats his father or mother with contempt."
All the above scriptures clearly indicate that children should be respectful to their parents and that it is in the best interest of the child to honour their parents. However, the biggest problem still remains that it is not the child who will automatically know these things. It is the responsibility of the parent to install these Godly principles into the child!
Ephesians 6:4, "And you fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but bring them up in the training and admonition of the Lord." This scripture clearly reveals to us that the instilling of Godly principles into the children, is the responsibility of the father of the children.
Fathers, take some time out of your busy schedule, to teach and train your children in the ways of the Lord. It is your responsibility to them and to God. Your time spent with your children in teaching them Godly principles, will be rewarded back to you in the future, for your children who have been brought up in the ways of the Lord, will honour and respect you, and their lives on the earth will be long, as is stipulated in verse 3 of Ephesians 6 and in Deuteronomy 5:16.
God’s Children
The different Characters of God's Children.
John 3:16
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.
John 3:16 sets out the main criteria for becoming a child of God. "Whoever believes in Him" is the main criteria. Do you believe in Him. If you do then you will not perish, but you shall have everlasting life. If you believe in Him, you would have already asked Him into your life and you are a Child of His.
Children of the world have different characteristics, which do change according to time. Us children of the Lord are no different in the way that we behave and the way that our characteristics change from time to time.
The Good Child.
The good child is the child that everyone wants to be theirs. This is the child that listens to every word that the parent speaks and obeys every single word and instruction to the "T". This child is never in trouble and generally shines out from above the rest of the children. This child seems to suceed in almost anything that they do. Other parents are envious of your child and wish that this child was their child. Other children are mostly nasty to this child, calling them names and acting in a manner towards them that can only really be defined as being jealous, even if they will not admit it.
In the lord's kingdom, I know that this is you that I am referring to. Well Done sweet child.
The Normal Child.
The normal or average child is that child that normally obeys and listens to the parent but somehow does not always get things right. The child wants to be like their sister or brother above, but does not seem to get it right. This child is not outright disobedient, but is often easily misled and so falls into trouble.
There are many of these children in the Kingdom of God. I know that you already know from your heart that most of your brothers and sisters are like this. Of course, you fit into the first category of the good child.
The Rebellious Child.
Uh Oh. This is the child that every parent dreads to name their own. This is usually when the mother turns to the father and says "Go and see what your child has done". No one wants to admit ownership to this child. The child is always in trouble. This is the child that causes the school's headmaster to get to know your telephone number out the top of his head. When you get that phone call from him, you try to deny that the child is yours, but the headmaster tells you that he has the child's records in front of him, and they reflect that the child does belong to you.
This is the child that takes all your time and patience. This child will test and try you. They will want to push you to the limits to see just how much you actually do love them. They are always in trouble. They will do anything to prove that they are right and that you, the parent, is wrong.
We have many of these children in the kingdom of God. The only difference is that when the headmaster phones, the Lord Proudly stands up and says, "He is My Child, His name is already on My records". When the headmaster wants to inflict punishment, The Lord stands up again and says, "No, The punishment has already been received. Christ Jesus already received the lashings on behalf of my child. My child is free and shall not be punished again."
Although everyone, including the Father in heaven, wants to be able to say that they have the good child, the truth is that there are different types of children. The fact that one is the good child and the other the rebellious child, does not remove the fact that they are indeed all His children and that their names are in the birth register called the "Lamb's Book Of Life". God does not disown His Children. Once your name is written in the Lamb's book of life, it is there forever. It may have a little note next to the entry that says "Currently in rebellion - Prodigal son - But Still Mine! Waiting eagerly for his return." (Luke 15:13 to 32)
Do not judge your brothers and sisters who may not be as good as you are, but know that Jesus loves them just as much as He loves you and His love covers all their sins. They will return to being the good child in time. Pray for them that they may return, and when you see them on the street, greet and treat them like the long lost brother or sister. Do not ignore or disown them, for they have always been and will always be your brother or sister, no matter how much they stray and rebel. Remember that deep inside, the rebellious child is hurting and is seeking just the one and same thing that you are, and that is to know that the Father does love them, no matter what.
God Bless.
